How to get more matches on The League in 2023

You can't get a date without getting a match first, so you've really got to put in the effort upfront to make your profile appealing to other users. Because of the exclusive nature of the app, including the League waitlist, users are really expecting quality when it comes to matches. So you'll need to pull out all the stops to make sure you stand out.

But don't worry, we've got all the steps you need to follow to impress your potential matches.

League users are looking for the best — so you need to bring your A-game right from the start. It's clear that users on The League care about appearances, as well as where you went to school and where you work, so you'll want to make sure that information is front and center.

Just like a resume or cover letter, you don't want to make the other person look too hard for the information they care about — it's too easy to just move on.

#1: Boost your profile

You can use The League for free, but competition is fierce. If you really want success on this dating app, it can be helpful to spring for League tickets. League tickets are the in-app currency that you can use for special features — like boosting your profile. A boost will cost you 5 tickets and it'll show your profile to an additional 50 users.

#2: Get professional photos

Great photos are important on any dating app, but they're especially important here. You're now competing with people who've got their photos on book jackets and conference brochures. Drop the selfies and get some pictures that really show you at your best. (And while you're at it, update your LinkedIn profile.)

#3: Get help from a dating coach

Let a professional edit your bio! Every writer needs a great editor, and that's not just advice for novelists. Dating coaches know what works and what doesn't work, and they know how to show off without sounding cocky.

#4: Jump the waitlist

If you don't want to wait in line with the rest of the dating riff raf, spring for a League membership and jump the line. You'll still need to follow all the other sign-up procedures like linking to a social account, but you won't be twiddling your thumbs for weeks waiting to join.

#5: Get endorsed by a friend

Have friends already on the app? Another way to jump the line is by getting endorsed by a current member. And the higher their standing, the better. (Because yes, referral quality matters.)

#6: Make sure your social profile is up to date

Like many dating apps, The League app pulls your info, including your job, from your Facebook or LinkedIn profile when you join. So you'll want to make sure those profiles are up to date before you connect them. And unlike some of the joking job titles you might get away with on Tinder, people are really looking for serious jobs and earning potential here. So make sure you're using accurate (and flattering) information.

#7: Don't be too picky about your preferences

It's easy to get specific about preferences when they're just numbers on a page. But how much does age range and height really matter? You're better off including an expansive range in your initial app setup and seeing how many matches you get. If you're spoiled for choice, and really care about a year or two, either way, you can always tighten down your preferences later.

The exclusivity of The League helps weed out some of the nonsense you find on other dating apps, and that's a great start. It also means you can't sit back and expect to be popular just because girls have the advantage when it comes to online dating. Instead, you really need to put in the effort to get the kind of matches you're looking for.

#1: Don't be afraid to show off

On some dating apps, men can be intimidated by women who love their careers. But on The League, you should be able to find people who match your ambition. Mention awards you've won or places you've been published — whatever it takes to show that you're a serious catch.

#2: Choose quality photos

Every dating app has its own culture, and on The League, bathroom selfies definitely aren't going to cut it. For higher-quality matches, you need higher-quality photos. Spring for professional shots if at all possible, and include pictures of you exploring your passions. Are you on a pedestal giving a speech? Doing volunteer work? Be sure to show your personality.

#3: Consider a paid membership

Women are at an advantage on most dating apps, but with The League's high standards and exclusivity, even women need to put in the extra effort. If you're serious about finding a match, consider a paid membership so you can take advantage of extra features and find the matches that are right for you.

#4: Check out The League sponsored events

The League is only available in select cities, but when it is active, it isn't fooling around. Not only does the dating app help you meet people online, they also host their own events in cities where they're active. If you're tired of the screen, get out there and make a match in person.

#5: Be nice!

We get it, sometimes you just need to get out of a situation and ghosting feels like the best way. But remember, on The League, everyone is definitely a real person, and they might even run in your own social or professional circles. So this is not the right place for being rude or making a bad impression. A simple no, thank you, is fine.

#6: Pay attention to The League dating app requirements

If you've already gotten a profile, you know all the hoops you had to jump through. So make sure you pay attention to the requirements in advance. From everything, it takes to get through the League waitlist to what's required to keep your account active — like making sure you log in often enough. The League really wants users who will stay active and follow the rules.

#7: Join League groups

If you're going to put the time and effort into starting and maintaining a League profile, you may as well get everything out of it that you can. That's where League groups come in. You can join group chats of people who share similar interests and make friends or valuable networking connections — and you never know where those connections might lead!