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Tinder match disappeared?

Did your Tinder match disappear? Here are the reasons that might have happened, along with what you can do about it.
tinder match disappeared

You did everything you were supposed to do — you downloaded the Tinder app, wrote a great Tinder profile, chose the right pictures, and spent your time swiping. Then next time you open Tinder and check your match list, the hot girl you were looking forward to talking to isn't there.

What happened?!

We know how frustrating it can be when your Tinder matches disappear. Read on to find out the reasons why your Tinder match disappeared, as well as ways you can identify the difference between a Tinder bug, a fake profile, a technical glitch, or someone who deleted their account.

We'll also share some tips on how to protect yourself from losing matches that you care about, as well as your options for getting a lost match back.

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Table of Content

Here is the outline of the article, feel free to jump to the section that interests you the most.

  1. It's a Tinder bug
  2. Your Tinder match unmatched you
  3. Your match's Tinder account was deleted
  4. Your match was a fake profile
  5. Can you get your lost Tinder match back?
  6. Avoid losing Tinder matches
its a tinder bug

It's a Tinder bug

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When your Tinder matches disappear, the best possible reason is a Tinder bug. Because if it's a Tinder glitch the problem is likely a temporary issue that will resolve itself without any serious effort on your part.

Because this is the easiest answer, it's also the one you should test first. Try logging out of your account and then logging back in again. And if your Tinder app is out of date, try updating it before you log back on.

Hopefully you'll discover this was a temporary bug and your matches will reappear shortly.

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your tinder match unmatched you

Your Tinder match unmatched you

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Although frustrating, being unmatched is the most likely reason your Tinder match disappeared, if you've already established it's not a bug.

Remember, anyone can unmatch at any time, for any reason. And that means a Tinder match disappearing isn't something to take personally.

Someone might unmatch because they've met someone else because they don't have time to date right now, or for any other reason you'll never guess. Don't waste time wondering where they went, just spend your time swiping on other profiles or messaging a different Tinder match.

your matchs tinder account was deleted

Your match's Tinder account was deleted

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Similar to being unmatched, it's possible your match deleted Tinder. And if your match deletes their account, there's really nothing you can do about it. There's also no way to know for sure if that's what happened.

So just like the possibility of being unmatched, someone deleting Tinder isn't worth losing sleep over. Just continue flirting with other people and next time, maybe try to get your match's phone number sooner.

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your match was a fake profile

Your match was a fake profile

Steps before reseting

Unfortunately, Tinder is vulnerable to bot advertising — just like every other corner of the internet. So if your match seemed too good to be true, it's possible they were never real in the first place.

If you never got as far as exchanging messages, it's difficult to tell whether this is the problem. But most bots can't carry on an interesting conversation, so they tend to be obvious once you get that far.

can you get your lost tinder match back

Can you get your lost Tinder match back?

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Unfortunately, when a match disappears on Tinder, they're usually gone for good.

As tempting as it might be to get your Tinder match back, it will take a lot less effort to simply make a new connection with a new match and move on.

And if your Tinder match disappeared because they deleted their account (or got banned) there's absolutely nothing you can do in the Tinder app to find them.

Start a new account

If you really can't live without your lost Tinder match, your only option is to start over with a new Tinder account and hope you'll find them again. Remember, this only works if they're still on the app — which means they likely unmatched you on purpose. So there's no reason to think they'll swipe right the next time your profile crosses their screen.

But if you're determined to go this route, follow our complete guide to resetting your Tinder account here.

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avoid losing tinder matches

Avoid losing Tinder matches

Two things before reseting your account

The best way to protect yourself from Tinder matches disappearing is to get their contact info asap. Remember, once you've matched then Tinder is just a messaging app — and there are better platforms for sending messages.

Let your match know that in your experience, The tinder app is kind of glitchy and you'd rather chat somewhere else. If they don't want to exchange phone numbers right away, you can also use their favorite social account, like Instagram or Twitter.

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Most of the reasons for a Tinder match disappearing are entirely out of your hands, so just consider it part of the territory of online dating.

If you're getting frustrated, take a break from the app, and then when you're ready, start using the app again with a new dating strategy.

When you start getting more matches it won't feel like such a big deal when one of them doesn't work out, or if someone disappears.

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