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50+ Conversation Topics That Lead to Sex - Tested and Approved

Feeling like starting a sexual relationship, but don't know how? These conversation topics will help you initiate sex and dirty talk for the best results possible.
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When you’re on a date with a girl, it’s vital that you play your cards right and make her feel comfortable while she’s out with you. While sex on a first date isn’t always possible, using the right conversation topics can lead to casual sex if you’re lucky.


A woman needs to feel comfortable opening up to you and talking to you before she’ll consider sleeping with you and letting you in on her sexual desires. That’s why you’ll need to steer the conversation in the right direction if you want to have a chance.


From deep conversation starters to talking about sexual preferences and sexy lingerie, there are plenty of good topics that will lead to sex if delivered right.


These are the top conversation topics you can use on your next date that could potentially lead to sex.

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Table of Contents

Here is the outline of the article, feel free to jump to the section that interests you the most.

  1. Use Humor
  2. Get Risky
  3. Use Sexual Innuendos
  4. Ask Sexy or Flirty Questions
  5. Ask About Her Past
  6. Talk About How She Would React to Certain Situations
Use Humor

Use Humor

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If you’re feeling nervous about bringing up topics that can lead to sex and intimate conversations, try adding a bit of humor to your sexual communication tactics. Humor is one of the best ways to break the ice and make your date feel comfortable about opening up to you through dirty talk.


Here are a few ways to use humor in the conversation and spark up a lighthearted discussion:


  • Tell her about a funny memory or sex story.
  • Share an embarrassing memory you have that will make her laugh.
  • Crack a funny and light-hearted sexual joke.
  • Ask her to share any embarrassing stories or memories with you.
  • Tell her about awkward sexual conversations you've had in the past.

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After taking time to get to know her, it’s time to turn the heat up and start talking about more risky topics. Talking about taboo topics like sex toys or sex lives will not only help her open up to you more but will make moving on to the delicate topic of sex a much more natural transition. You can even consider playing sexy truth and dare over text!


Here are a few risky subjects you can bring up to spice up the conversation:


  • Ask her if she has any tattoos or piercings.
  • Share a travel story and ask her if she has any.
  • Talk about risky memories like skinny dipping.
  • Ask if she’s ever done anything out of the ordinary.
  • Mention sexual topics like sexual experiences or sexual activity.

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Use Sexual Innuendos

Use Sexual Innuendos

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Sexual innuendos are a simple and fun way to lighten up the conversation and steer it towards the topic of sex. You don’t want to directly refer to sex, but you can mention or hint towards sex with a witty comment and sexual innuendo instead. This way, you can gauge your date’s reaction to see if she’s up for the conversation.


Here are a few examples of sexual innuendos you can use as conversation starters to talk about with your date:


  • I’m definitely thirsty tonight.
  • Yes, my favorite animal is definitely the beaver.
  • That’s what she said.
  • That’s what he said.

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Ask Sexy or Flirty Questions

Ask Sexy or Flirty Questions

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Asking your date questions will help you get to know her better while also steering the conversation toward spicier topics. You don’t have to ask questions directly related to sex to get the conversation moving in that direction either. A good relationship is about more than just sex and sex talk.


You can ask about flirty or risky topics like tattoos, past relationships, and more to turn the heat up in the conversation. Here are some questions to use as conversation starters on your next date:


  • How old were you when you had your first drink?
  • What was your first kiss like?
  • What's the best sex you ever had?
  • What’s the coolest place you ever traveled?
  • Do you have any crazy travel stories?
  • What’s the most trouble you got into in high school?
  • Have you ever gone on a blind date?

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Ask About Her Past

Ask About Her Past

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Asking your date about her past experiences is an easy way to talk more about sex in a way that’s not awkward or too invasive. While you don’t want to spend the date talking about her exes or going into too much detail about her past relationships, you can talk about fun past experiences she’s had and enjoyed.


Here are a few things to ask your date about her past to turn up the heat in your conversation:

  • Have you ever been kissed in a pool?
  • What is one of your biggest fantasies?
  • What are your thoughts on foreplay?
  • How do you feel about kissing in the rain?
  • Where’s the craziest place you’ve kissed someone?
  • Have you ever kissed on the first date before?
  • What’s your craziest memory from a date?

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Talk About How She Would React to Certain Situations

Talk About How She Would React to Certain Situations

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Now that your date is feeling more comfortable with you, it’s time to put the attention back on you. Ask your date how she would act in certain situations with you in the bedroom and on the date. This will get her visualizing the two of you together, and will better set the mood.


These are a few examples of how you can ask about situations between you two:

  • What would you do if I leaned over and kissed you right now?
  • Do you feel any sexual tension between us?
  • What would you say if I asked you over to my place tonight?
  • How would you act if I told you I like you?
  • If I took you out for a dinner date, would you be smitten or hate how romantic it was?
  • If I were to hold your hand while we walk, what would you think?

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Conclusion

With these conversation starters, you'll be able to have hot sexy talk with your date that could lead to sex afterwards too. Add a few of these examples into your next conversation to increase your chances of getting lucky on your first date with a girl.

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