So you’ve finally started to get a few matches and even managed to get a conversation going, only to have it stop seemingly out of nowhere. Read on to find out how you can easily keep the conversation going on Tinder.
Roast Founder, Dating and AI Expert
Published June 14, 2023 -Updated March 4, 2024
Once you’ve sparked up a chat with someone you’re interested in, it can be difficult when the conversation hits pause. Fortunately, even if the conversation has slowed down or stopped – you can keep the conversation flowing with your Tinder match, and help yourself land a first date with the right questions. These are the best Tinder conversation starters to ensure your match doesn't lose interest and gets excited about talking to you.
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Most people love to talk about where they’re from. It brings up a lot of nostalgic memories, and is an easy way you can get to know your match. This is one of the best open ended questions to ask if you’re not sure of what to say and when the conversation has gotten stale.
It also shows your match that you’re interested in them and want to get to know them. Here are a few questions you can ask:
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Another easy question to ask your match is what they do for a living. Since most people work a job, this will encourage the conversation to keep going and give them an easy way to keep the conversation going. Once they tell you a bit more about what they do, you’ll have a lot more questions you can ask about their job on the dating app.
These are a few examples of questions you can ask your match:
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Find out about their hobbies and passions. People love to talk about the things that bring them joy and light them up. Ask them about what hobbies they’re good at and enjoy doing on their spare time. You may even find you have a few passions in common with your match, which you can continue to talk about.
These are a few questions you can ask your match about their hobbies on the dating app:
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Spice up the conversation by asking questions that are outside of the box. Ask your match about traveling, and what they would do outside of their daily schedule and life. This is a fun conversation starter that will get your match thinking and excited about their future travel plans rather than boring them with small talk.
You may even share a few bucket list travel destinations that you can talk about. Here are a few examples to use to help the conversation flow:
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If you really want to get to know your match and show them you’re serious about them, ask a few deep questions. Personal questions make for great Tinder conversation starters that will get you more matches on the app.
Here are a few examples:
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Things don’t always have to be serious or boring when it comes to Tinder conversations. There are plenty of playful questions you can ask that will revive the chat and make it fun again.
These are the best playful questions to ask on Tinder:
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When you’re stuck on what to say next, ask a basic question that your match can easily ask without too much thought. This will give the conversation an easy-going edge and keep the chat flowing. Ask them a few questions about themselves that aren’t too deep or serious, but are fun and lighthearted instead.
These are a few of our top examples you can use:
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If you really like your match and are looking to build a real, genuine connection, there are several questions you can ask. These questions will show your match you're interested in truly getting to know her. Many girls will be more interested in talking to you when they realize you’re not just looking for a hookup.
These questions will help you build a connection:
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With these questions, your Tinder match will be eager to keep the conversation going on the online dating app. Great conversation leads to good responses and taking the conversation off of the app, and to text and eventually, in person.
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