Dating is hard.
Not everyone is blessed with the confidence to make a move. Most people need a little help in that department. They need to know the other person has the same feelings. But how do you know?
While everyone is different, here are 24 signs she wants you to make a move that you can keep an eye out for. All the subtle signs can add up to a glaringly obvious green light, but only if you're paying attention.
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While every woman is different, there are some common signs she wants you to make a move. Here's what to keep an eye out for.
Discuss the importance of paying attention to her body language and how it can reveal her interest in you making a move.
One of the biggest subtle signs she's interested in you is her body language. It can say a lot without actually saying a lot.
Some of the things you want to keep an eye out for are below.
All of these could be signs that she's interested in you.
Perhaps you're chatting on a dating app or texting. Even though you aren't in person, there are still some obvious signs that she's interested that you can look out for.
She replies quickly, but only to you. It's almost like she's waiting for you to text her. She's so excited to get the message, she forgets to play it cool.
She leaves room for you to ask her out. She'll lead you into a situation where it's easy to ask her out. She shares things she wants to do or expresses interest in doing something that's important to you.
She brings up details. Remembering the small things indicate that she's giving you a lot of thought. She's making an effort to be interested in your life.
She texts you randomly. If you don't text her, she may be done waiting. Perhaps she manufactures a situation to say she's thinking of you or just says hi. She wants to keep the conversation going.
She uses flirty emojis and gifs. Winky, kissy, and upside-down smileys can all indicate that she's trying to be playful. The same can be true about gifs.
She keeps it flirty, dirty, or both. This is one of the more obvious signs, but if she's overly flirty or sexual, she's interested in you. She just wants you to make a move.
Sometimes other people can help indicate that she wants you to make a move on her. Here are some subtle signs to keep an eye out for.
Her friends are chatting her up. If you are talking with her friends, and they are only sharing how great she is and steering the conversation back to her, they may be trying to get you to make a move.
Her friends ask if you're single. Again, her friends are going to be her best wingmen. If they're asking if you're single, it's because they know someone who wants that information.
You're at something that you like to do. If she's doing something that you like to do in a group, chances are she wants you to make a move. She's giving you the green light by making herself available.
She's suddenly always around. If she's doing whatever she can to spend time with you, then that's one of the clear signs she wants you to make a move. She is hoping that you'll initiate conversations, and she's putting herself in the best situations to increase her odds,
If you're not sure that she's into you, you can always turn to the Internet! Online communities like Reddit have thorough posts that help men understand the signs that she wants you to make a move. Additionally, you can pose specific scenarios to get advice, it doesn't matter if it's on Tinder or in real life.
Some insights Reddit users have shared are:
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Now that you know some of the definite signs that she's into you, how do you go about making a move? Here are some strategies to help you move forward with confidence.
If you've ever felt tongue-tied around women, it can be hard to make that next move. Chances are, if she's done some of the above behaviors, she's interested. However, even with the clearest signs, it can still be hard.
Talk it out. Get advice from someone else. Bounce ideas off of friends, online communities, therapists, and more. This will help you get a new perspective and feel more confident that she's into you.
Practice. This may sound silly, but practice what you want to say! Look at yourself in the mirror or write it out. Type it out and revise it. Make sure that you feel confident in your next move. You don't want to sound too nervous. That may be a turn-off for some women.
Just do it. Rip the band-aid off and get it done. While rejection can be embarrassing, it's better than wondering what if. The next woman will be lucky to have you.
Of course, you can simply ask someone out, but where's the fun in that? Some women like to be wooed, and here are some romantic gestures that you can use to express your interest.
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Now you know some of the best signs she wants you to make a move, as well as some strategies that will help you take that first step.
If you're into her and you think she's into you, go for it.
You'll always wonder what-if if you don't try.
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