How To Ask A Girl Out On Hinge With Confidence

While there are no hard and fast rules for asking a girl out on a dating app, research suggests that building a strong rapport is key to increasing your chances of success. One study found that asking a girl out on a date is generally not a good idea until you've exchanged a dozen or more messages and have built up enough trust for her to feel comfortable accepting your offer.

However, every conversation is different and may progress at a different pace. Some data suggests that asking a girl out after exchanging ten messages on a dating app or 2-3 messages on a dating site may be appropriate.

Ultimately, you'll need to read between the lines and look for signs that she's ready to take things offline.

Signs you must ask out a girl for a date

• Her messages are long, and she actively contributes to the conversation.
• She's curious and shows interest in knowing more about you.
• Emojis, exclamation points, and lols are equivalent to laughing. They show that they enjoy talking to you.

Signs you must not ask a girl out for a date

• She seems reluctant to share details about her life.
• She takes days to reply to your conversations.

If you see positive signs, suggesting a casual date idea for a coffee or lunch is best. However, if she doesn't accept the offer, it's best to move on and not force things.

Now when the girl you are talking to seems interested in meeting you for the first time, comes the step to make your first move. Here’s how you should ask any woman for a date in online dating.

Step #1: Build her trust and attraction

All women on a dating app decide to meet a guy once they consider him trustworthy and attractive. To keep things on the right track, you can follow these simple steps:

• Look enthusiastic while talking to her. She will feel comfortable talking to you if you mimic her greeting and messaging style. Start a conversation as simple as “Hey Susan” if she messages you like “Hey David.”
• Use her first name in the conversation as it creates a sweet sensation and emotional bond between two people.
• Keep the conversation engaging by asking different questions so she won’t feel pressure to keep the conversation flowing.

Enquiring about her life and personality gives her the feeling of comfort and ease that the guy she’s talking to is interested in her. It makes her feel good and creates warm feelings toward you.

Step #2: Exchange phone numbers

Since it’s the initial stage of dating, asking them out for a date would be too early. So, to keep things casual, ask a girl for her phone number. Exchanging phone numbers can be a good way to gauge your match's level of interest in you.

If they're willing to exchange numbers, it's a sign that they're interested in getting to know you better and potentially meeting up in the future.

You can ask her:

• It was fun talking to you. Would you be open to exchanging phone numbers to move the conversation to text?
• Hey, I'll be away from the computer for a while, but I'd like to keep chatting. Feel free to text me at (555)-555-5555!"

Step #3: Ask them out politely

Once you both are chatting on and off, it's time to invite your crush for a date. You do not have to explicitly use the word “date” as it puts pressure on them for a formal meeting. Keep things light and friendly and use phrases like "meeting up" and "hanging out," or ask them for a particular activity that interests them.

Be polite with your invitation, as it increases your chances of approval. While inviting a girl for a date on a dating app offers something she will be interested in. If she loves art, you can visit the famous art gallery in the city. Or a movie, concert, fun festival, or music event.

You can phrase your invitation the following way:

• Hey! I'm really enjoying chatting with you, and I was wondering if you'd like to continue the conversation over coffee sometime this week.
• I've been really impressed with your taste in music and movies, and I think it would be fun to explore that further over dinner. Would you be interested in grabbing a bite together this weekend?

Step #4: Fix the time, date, and location

To make a beautiful woman agree with your date idea, you must play it smartly without giving vague details. In an ideal situation, you can go for dinner at an expensive restaurant or a music festival, but taking all your first dates to an expensive place would be unreasonable.

You can suggest something related to their interests if she is into hiking, Italian food, or amusement parks. You must make your offer look compelling and attractive, even if it's a simple date at a cafe. You can ask something like:

• “There is a great coffee shop at X street that serves the most amazing latte.”
• “Did you know Starbucks has a secret menu? Want to check it out this weekend?”

Don't worry if they're not free on the day you suggest—just smoothly offer an alternative for them.

Step #5: Be confident in your approach

Undoubtedly, women on dating sites appreciate confident, self-assured men who are mature enough to handle a serious long-term relationship. Saying things that show your insecurity is a direct threat to the future of your relationship.

Don't make challenging plans of trekking or hiking for the first date; keep things cute and safe. Choose a public place like a park, coffee shop, gallery, or museum to make her feel comfortable and safe.

Or you can also ask to hang out with friends. Group hangouts put less pressure, especially when meeting someone for the first time.

• "Would you be interested in bowling with me and some friends this Friday? It'll be a blast!"
• "You like DC heroes. Some friends will see Wonder Woman tomorrow, and I'd love it if you came too!"