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How to Get Laid on The First Date in 2024 (100% Guaranteed)

Landing a first date isn’t easy, but that’s not where the work ends. If you want to get laid on the first date, keep reading to find out how you can get laid after a good first date.
How To Get Laid On The First Date?

Going out on a first date can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and stressful all in one. Generally speaking, sex on the first date is something many guys hope for, but aren't always able to achieve. Women aren't always up for sleeping with someone on the first date, and your match will have to be pretty smitten by you to want to spend the night together.


Fortunately, if done right, first dates can end with a night spent with your match.


With these tips, you'll be able to build sexual tension on the first date and hopefully, get yourself sex on the first night.

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Table of Contents

Here is the outline of the article, feel free to jump to the section that interests you the most.

  1. Ask Her Out
  2. Choose The Right Setting
  3. Project Confidence
  4. Look The Part
  5. Turn on The Charm
  6. Get Your Flirt On
  7. Don’t Make It All About Sex
  8. Show an Interest In Her
  9. Keep The Date Going
  10. Don’t Be Pushy
Ask Her Out

Ask Her Out

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Most women want a man who is confident and takes the lead which is why you should ask her out first. Don't wait for her to suggest a date and always make the first move to show that you're in control and know exactly what you want.


If you want date sex, you'll need to take control and show your match you're interested in taking her out and getting to know her better. Ask her out over the app and plan the date once she says yes to boost your chances for a night of date sex.

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Choose The Right Setting

Choose The Right Setting

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Choosing the right setting for a date is crucial if you want to get laid on the first night. You don't want to take your date out to a fun fair or arcade if you're looking to get sex on the first date. Instead, plan to take her out to a bar or dimly lit restaurant where you can stay out late while still talking.


Most men won't put in the effort to choose a proper spot for a date, so spend some time researching trendy places that your date will enjoy spending time in.

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Project Confidence

Project Confidence

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In order to build sexual tension, you need to show confidence with your body language and in your first impression. Maintain eye contact and ask some flirt questions while talking to her and show your match that you're self assured and socially calibrated as this makes you more attractive in her eyes.


To show confidence, you'll want to take charge of the conversation, while also listening to her and giving her chances to talk too. Open doors for her and be chivalrous to exude a confident, attractive persona she won't be able to resist.

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Look The Part

Look The Part

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To look like a confident person, you need to look the part when trying to get first date sex. Shave, groom your hair, shower, and pick out a clean, quality outfit that you can look your best in. If you show up with undone hair or dirty nails, you can be rest assured you'll make a poor first impression and won't get laid on the first night.


Most women appreciate a man with style, and will be much more attracted to you if you look good.

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Turn on The Charm

Turn on The Charm

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Not only do you need to be confident, but you should be charming and funny as well. Women love having a conversation with a new person who is charming and makes them laugh. Throw in a few flirty jokes and be playful in a way that's classy and respectable.

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Get Your Flirt On

Get Your Flirt On

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Be flirty without being too forward on the first date. Even a good girl can change her mind and sleep with someone on the first date if she likes them enough and feels comfortable. By being flirty, your date will know you're interested and will feel comfortable around you.


Be the guy who is flirty in a tasteful way and makes his date feel attractive and appreciated.

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Don’t Make It All About Sex

Don’t Make It All About Sex

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While you want to be honest with your date, don't make it all about sex. While you don't need to be looking or marriage or a relationship, you shouldn't be talking about sex or make her think that's the only reason you're on the date with her.


The entire point of the date is to build an attraction, rather than putting it all out on the table and making the date all about getting laid. Most guys will make this mistake, so make sure to talk about different topics to ensure your first date is fun and light-hearted.

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Show an Interest In Her

Show an Interest In Her

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Don't just talk about yourself the entire time. While a woman will want to know more about you, she'll also appreciate being asked questions about herself. Talk to her about what she enjoys, her passions, hobbies, and what makes her who she is.


She'll have way more fun with you if you show an interest in her as a person, and the conversation could lead to sex if you play your cards right.

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Keep The Date Going

Keep The Date Going

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To increase your chances of having sex after the date, keep the date going as long as you can. Keep the conversation lively, and if you live walking distance from the date, ask her if she wants to come over afterward.


After a first date, if she comes over to your place, you may get lucky enough to have sex if she's comfortable and wants to sleep with you after a good night.

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Don’t Be Pushy

Don’t Be Pushy

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One thing you need to remember is to avoid being too pushy. If you've made references to going back to your place or to spend the night together and she isn't interested, don't ask again. You'll ruin your chances at a fun night of sex by being way too forward and creeping her out.


Always be respectful and if you're not sure if she's feeling it, just ask. Being honest is a much better approach as most guys are too afraid to talk openly about sex if they aren't sure.

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Conclusion

Trying to get sex on the first date can end up making you more nervous than ever. Take things slow and use these tips to help you get laid on the first night with your date.

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