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How to Hookup With a Girl: The Guide To Help You Seal The Deal (2024 Edition)

Looking for ways to get yourself a one night stand without having to get into a serious relationship? Keep reading to find out how to hookup with a girl and get casual sex from dating apps online.
How To Hookup With A Girl

So, you want to learn how you can hook up with a girl? Most guys who are looking to meet women are also thinking about how they can take things to the next level. It’s not easy to hook up with a girl for the first time especially if you’re meeting her on a dating app like Tinder of Hinge, but it’s not impossible either.


With the right approach, you’ll be able to sweep girls off their feet and take the next step with them. These tips will help you land a casual hookup with a girl that you're talking to on dating apps like Tinder or Hinge.

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Table of Contents

Here is the outline of the article, feel free to jump to the section that interests you the most.

  1. 1. Break the ice
  2. 2. Get to know her better
  3. 3. Ask her out on a date
  4. 4. Pick the right location with the right vibe
  5. 5. Compliment her
  6. 6. Ask her questions about herself
  7. 7. Look for signs that she’s interested
  8. 8. Touch her shoulder or arm when talking to her
  9. 9. Be flirty and confident
  10. 10. Be honest and ask her
  11. 11. Don’t be pushy
1. Break the ice

1. Break the ice

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First off, you’ll need to break the ice with the girl you’re talking to. After matching, it’s important that you start the conversation with a smooth icebreaker. You can start the conversation with a funny pickup line, a witty comment, or a flirty pickup line. Whatever your approach is, always be confident and lead the way for the conversation so that she feels comfortable.

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2. Get to know her better

2. Get to know her better

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A girl will appreciate you a lot more if you take an interest in her by getting to know her better. Ask her questions about her profile pictures, family, hobbies, and passions. Get to know her interests and what makes her happy, along with other details like her favorite food, movies, and other interests. This can also help you plan the perfect date around what she likes.

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3. Ask her out on a date

3. Ask her out on a date

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Once you feel confident that the conversation has been going smoothly on dating website, ask her out on a date. You need to take the lead and set the tone of the date by planning it and leaving the work out of her hands. This will show her you’re taking the initiative to take her out and are genuinely interested in going on a date with her.

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4. Pick the right location with the right vibe

4. Pick the right location with the right vibe

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When choosing the location and vibe of the date, you’ll want to go for a place that has a sexy, cool vibe that will get you two in the mood. Pick a cool bar or restaurant that you can go to in the evening for a sexy, romantic date.


Ask her out for a few drinks at your local bar so things aren't a bit awkward and you get a potential hook up from the app. The right atmosphere will set the tone for the night for a flirty night out.

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5. Compliment her

5. Compliment her

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Girls love compliments— so don’t forget to compliment her throughout the night. Pay attention to the little details and make sure she feels special for the entire night. This will also send her the signal that you’re interested and attracted to her, which will boost her confidence and let her know that you’re definitely keen to get to know her better.


She'll be more likely to want to hook up with you if she's feeling confident and she's comfortable with you.

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6. Ask her questions about herself

6. Ask her questions about herself

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When you’re out on the date, make sure to ask her more questions about herself that aren’t just surface-level. Having a face-to-face conversation is much more impactful than chatting online through a dating app. Let her know you’re still looking to get to know her and want to know what makes her tick. 


A girl isn’t going to want to get to know you intimately if she feels you don’t actually care about getting to know her, so show her you care by asking a lot of questions.


You can also ask her about more sexual topics if she's comfortable like phone sex, her first kiss, or other intimate details she feels comfortable sharing with you.

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7. Look for signs that she’s interested

7. Look for signs that she’s interested

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Before you make any moves, look out for signs that she’s interested in you. Is she smiling and laughing a lot when you talk while making eye contact? Is she flirty, playful, and touching your arm lightly? If so, these are all signs that she’s interested in you. If you find the opposite to be true, she may not be attracted to you.

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8. Touch her shoulder or arm when talking to her

8. Touch her shoulder or arm when talking to her

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Just like girls will playfully touch your arm, you can lightly do the same to show her you’re attracted to her and are interested. Touch her shoulder or arm lightly when you’re talking naturally in conversation. This will signal to her that you like her and are attracted to her. Make eye contact to prep things for the first kiss and to show her you're thinking about kissing her.

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9. Be flirty and confident

9. Be flirty and confident

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Girls love a guy who is confident and not afraid to show how he really feels. Turn on the flirtation with a few flirty, funny, and witty comments that will make her blush. Let her know you’re interested in a smooth, confident way, and don’t be too nervous to lead the conversation. Carry yourself through your body language by sitting up right, setting your shoulders back, and exuding a confident, sexy attitude.


She’ll feel a lot more comfortable around you she knows you’re confident and willing to take the lead.

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10. Be honest and ask her

10. Be honest and ask her

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Don’t be shady about your intentions and just be honest with her. If the date is going well, ask her if she’d like to go back to your place or if she’s interested in a hookup. You can make your intentions with her clear, and see if she’s on the same page. There’s no sense in lying to her, as she’ll be able to see through you and won’t want to see you again.


The right girl will appreciate your honesty and will be on the same page as you and feel comfortable in taking the next step with you.

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11. Don’t be pushy

11. Don’t be pushy

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If she’s unsure or seems uninterested, don’t be pushy. There is nothing worse than a guy who can’t take no for an answer, gets offended, or is super pushy. You’ll only end up turning her off and getting yourself blocked if you’re way too forward. Respect her decision and how she feels, and be patient— just because she isn’t interested in a hookup yet, doesn’t mean that she won’t be down the line.


If she's drunk, it's best to avoid hooking up with her. While she may want to hook up, it's best to wait until you're both in the right frame of mind and want to hook up soberly.

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Conclusion

By following this guide, you'll be able to sweep a girl off her feet and land yourself casual sex at the end of a successful date.

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Ben is one of the best Dating Experts I've ever met and one of the few that cracked the algorithm of online dating. Every week, Ben is publishing new articles on ROAST, helping 20M+ of people to get more matches, dates, and find the one!

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