How to make a girl horny and improve her sex drive? Learn to hit the right spots to make a woman horny for an improved and fulfilling sexual experience
Roast Founder, Dating and AI Expert
Published October 12, 2023 -Updated March 4, 2024
Understanding what a woman desires is not an easy task. But if you play your cards smartly, you can make any girl feel desired and sexually excited for you. There are numerous ways to make any girl wet and increase her desire for sexual pleasure.
But remember that the process of making a girl horny is more about enjoying the process and feeling the sexual tension equally. You can follow our guide or take inspiration from it because a lot of time, things do not go as planned, especially when both are highly charged with sexual desires. So, let's start with some basics
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Once you have planned to make her all crazy about you, remember that three major points can help you in your mission. There's a lot more to making a woman horny, but they are clear basics to get started with:
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Sexual brakes are the things that affect the girl's sex drive negatively. They can be a mental, physical, or emotional element. If a woman is ready physically, it also means she's not ready mentally. Such brakes may include remorse, guilt, stress, anxiety, feeling unworthy, or any mental condition.
Most men ignore these hurdles, giving them a lesser or zero priority jeopardizing their relationship. Therefore, it's best to identify and resolve such brakes before moving to the next stage.
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A sexual accelerator is something that increases her sexual appetite. Foreplay is said to be the best accelerator among men and women. However, accelerators can be different in men and women. What works for you might not work for her. A person can have a combination of the following brake/acceleration combo:
Each person possesses one of these combinations. There are examples where men are seen to have less sensitive accelerators and more sensitive brakes. And women are typically seen with sensitive brakes.
So, if you jump to the intensive stage without dealing with her brakes, you might spoil her mood because it is just similar to pushing the gas pedal when the emergency brake is also on. This means you won't be able to make a girl horny.
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Here we bring you the breakdown of everything that will make your girl feel wet and wanting you in no time:
To arouse a woman, it's essential to be a gentleman, making her feel loved and appreciated. You can't make a girl horny or sexually interested if she's not feeling appreciated. Meeting the standards of old-fashioned romance is necessary.
Being a gentleman includes traditional gestures like opening doors, buying drinks, and showing respect to her and everyone at the first date. Additionally, it means not monopolizing conversations, maintaining respect for all, and keeping the conversation engaging.
Boredom is a mood killer, so it's crucial to captivate her with every word you speak. The key to arousing a woman lies in the foundation of respect, appreciation, and being genuinely interesting. These principles are fundamental for turning a girl on.
When complimenting a girl, it's crucial to be thoughtful and careful. Opt for neutral compliments like "I like your style" or combine this with a reference to her appearance to show appreciation for her efforts to look good for you.
Avoid specific comments about body parts like legs or buttocks to prevent unintentionally causing discomfort or touching on insecurities. Honesty is key; genuine compliments are always a safe choice.
Building sexual tension is a crucial step in igniting desire. It's the anticipation of sexual connection without immediate engagement. This tension can be established through words, physical touch, and imagination. However, it's essential not to overdo it, as this can lead to aversion instead of arousal.
The key is gradually heightening her excitement days or hours before the expected climax. If you're apart, send a subtle and suggestive text message. For those together, employ sensual gestures and touches, ensuring they're passionate and genuine rather than following a rigid checklist. Building sexual tension can lead to arousal within seconds when done with care and passion.
You can never underestimate the importance of foreplay in a sexual interaction. It's the most powerful weapon to turn on any girl. Start slowly and gradually accelerate towards the main point.
You cannot simply start sex; you need to warm her up and make her sexually aroused. To have amazing foreplay, learn to use your tongue and hands creatively on her different body parts.
Teasing is a powerful tool in the art of seduction. From a young age, men have used teasing to express interest and capture a woman's attention. The key is to refine these tactics over time, making them even more effective.
Women often desire to be teased and receive attention. To arouse her, teasing should be employed in various ways, whether light banter about her choices or playful eye contact and accidental touches.
The skill lies in teasing without offending. While it may take practice, mastering the art of teasing can make her laugh, ease her tension, and ultimately turn her on. Never underestimate the potent force of teasing in the intricate process of seduction. It's about knowing how to push the right buttons to ignite desire.
You need to show her your dominant nature making her believe you are the alpha both in the bedroom and real life as well. You can do this by staying strong on your beliefs and promises.
While in a bedroom, a woman likes a bit of force with a lot of passion. It can include ripping her clothes, throwing her down on the bed, and guiding her to her darkest fantasies. It will turn her on because women love men who can take control.
To escalate physical intimacy successfully, apply the ASR principle: Action, Silence, Retreat.
This balanced approach avoids appearing too pushy or reserved. This process should be repeated over two to four sessions, with the first two focusing on light touches and kisses. These initial stages should be flirtatious and synchronized, leading progressively from one area of her body to another.
Avoid sudden, wild movements or abrupt transitions. In the last two sessions, maintained the same actions with more intensity and passion, ensuring the transition is imperceptible to maintain her comfort and desire.
All your efforts are in vain if you do not maintain steady eye contact. Eye contact is perfect for arousing a woman. Looking deep into her eyes lets her build a stronger physical and mental bond. There are different eye contacts to convey love, passion, respect, or desire.
If you can convey your thoughts through eye contact, you can build a better relationship with your partner. She'll trust you and know that you are the right man for her. You can look into her eyes for a while, touch her, and then move to your next step.
How you greet a girl, whether with a handshake or a hug, can significantly impact her perception of you on the first date. A firm and confident handshake is crucial to leave a positive impression. However, opt for a warm and firm hug on your second date.
Different types of hugs convey various levels of interest. When hugging, communicate your romantic interest by pressing your body close to hers and holding her a moment longer than you would with a friend. This gesture shows that you're sexually interested and don't want to let her go, signaling your desire for a deeper connection.
In a relationship with a woman, it's crucial to understand her without relying solely on words. Women often wait for you to perceive their emotions and desires. This extends to intimate moments where she might initiate sex nervously due to a fear of rejection.
While rejections of women offering sex are infrequent, it's essential not to make that mistake. Even if it seems awkward, accepting her initiation is vital, as denying her could deter future intimacy. Over time, as she becomes more relaxed, her approach is likely to improve.
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Making a girl horny is an intricate process involving emotional connection, understanding, communication, and physical intimacy. It's important to prioritize her pleasure, attention to her needs, and respect her boundaries.
Building trust and deepening the connection between you is fundamental. Keep in mind that each person is unique, and what arouses one woman may not work for another.
The key is to be attentive, communicative, and genuinely interested in making her feel desired and appreciated. By focusing on these aspects, you can create an environment where sexual arousal naturally thrives, enhancing your connection and intimacy.
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