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Kiss On The First Date: How to Get a Kiss On The First Date in 2024

Now that you’ve got yourself a first date, it’s time to seal the deal with a first date kiss. Keep reading to learn how you can get a kiss on the first date.
How to Kiss On The First Date?

There are fewer feelings as magical than landing a first kiss on a first date. If you’ve ever been on a date, then you know how nerve-wracking it can be to try and get a first kiss by the end of the night. When you feel chemistry between you and your date you can play your cards right, and with the right moves, make sure you get a kiss and a second date at the end of it.


There aren't any hard and fast rules to getting a kiss on the first date, but there are some tips you can follow to increase your chances of nailing the date.



Here are the best tips and ideas about your first date and how you can get a kiss!

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Table of Contents

Here is the outline of the article, feel free to jump to the section that interests you the most.

  1. Choose a Good Location
  2. Compliment Your Date
  3. Look At Her Body Language
  4. Pay Attention To The Vibe
  5. Trust Your Gut
  6. Look At Her Lips
  7. Be Flirty and Playful
  8. Go In With Confidence
  9. If You’re Not Sure, Ask First
Choose a Good Location

Choose a Good Location

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Your first date should be somewhere where you'll be able to get a first kiss, and it won't be awkward if you do. Places like a movie theatre, bar, or carnival in the evening can be great spots to go on a date that could end in a kiss.


Kissing on the first date won't happen if you're in a public place where it would be too awkward or put too much pressure on her for a kiss.

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Compliment Your Date

Compliment Your Date

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You must have lots of topics to talk about during your first date. Start off by complimenting your date to show her you're romantically interested. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, and let the compliments come naturally. To establish physical intimacy, you first need to make her feel special and appreciated.


Women love to be complimented on their personality, outfit, or looks as long as it's done in a tasteful and respectful way. Make her feel special by telling her what exactly you like about her and why you took her out on the date.

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Look At Her Body Language

Look At Her Body Language

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Read your date's body language and check for signs she wants you to make a move. Are her arms crossed with her seemingly closed off to you? Is she avoiding too much eye contact and zoning out of the conversation? This is a red flag that she isn't interested and that the date isn't going well.


If she's leaning towards you, smiling, and making eye contact, this can be a much better sign that she's enjoying her time with you. A first date kiss will only happen if she has a physical connection to you and shows you that.


Do your best to read her body language and get a sense of how she's feeling about you.

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Pay Attention To The Vibe

Pay Attention To The Vibe

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Is the conversation flowing and showing no signs of slowing down? Does she seem interested in talking to and getting to know you? If so, you could be close to getting kiss on the first date.


There's no point in putting too much pressure on yourself if she's not even interested in you to begin with. Pay attention to the vibe, how she talks to you, what topic is she talking about, and her body language to get a clear picture of how she really feels about the date.

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Trust Your Gut

Trust Your Gut

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If you're still feeling unsure about whether she's playing hard to get or is genuinely interested in getting physical affection from you, listen to your gut. Do you feel that she'd be interested in a second date, or even a third date? She could be shy or more reserved on first dates, so always trust your intuition and how you feel about the date.


When in doubt, ask how she's feeling and let her be honest with you. This will save both of you time in the long run, and she may even be appreciative that you took an interest and asked.

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Look At Her Lips

Look At Her Lips

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To land a kiss on the first date, you'll need to set the scene and allude to your date that you're interested in a kiss without being too obvious. Before going in for the first kiss, look at her lips every once in a while. This will show her you're thinking about her lips and kissing her, and you can then read her reaction to see if you should move things forward.

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Be Flirty and Playful

Be Flirty and Playful

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A first kiss can't happen without a bit of flirty banter and playfulness. If you want to lock lips, get sparks flying with flirty jokes and comments that make her laugh and blush. Kissing on a first date often happens when you and your date are comfortable and feel comfortable together, which you can do with flirtiness and playful comments.


Another way to be flirty is to show small physical affection. Touch her arm playfully to read how she reacts to your touch. If she responds well, this is a good sign that she wants you to flirt with her and doesn't mind small physical affection.

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Go In With Confidence

Go In With Confidence

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Most relationship experts share that confidence is key to creating chemistry and attraction with a first date. While everyone has different comfort levels, your date will feel comfortable kissing you if you're self assured and confident in how you approach the date.


You don't have to go straight in with a french kiss, and you can take things slow as you spark up a conversation with her and let her know you're interested in her physically. A good kiss happens with time, and doesn't need to be rushed.

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If You’re Not Sure, Ask First

If You’re Not Sure, Ask First

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If you've tried everything and still can't read her body language, just ask if she's comfortable kissing on the first date, and if you can kiss her. She'll appreciate your confidence and that you took the time to ask her if she feels comfortable kissing you.


Meeting a new person on dating apps like Tinder or Hinge can be awkward and anxiety-inducing. Your date may want you to show your intentions clearly and ask if she would like a kiss instead.

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Conclusion

First dates can leave you feeling like a ball of nerves but with the right strategy and approach, you can come off as a confident, attractive guy your match won't be able to resist. With these tips, you'll easily be able to land yourself a kiss on the perfect first date.

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