100+ Topics to Talk About With a Girl Over Text (2023 Edition)

People often love to talk about where they’re from and where they grew up because it brings up meaningful and nostalgic memories. This is a great way to get to know the girl you’re talking to better and to give her a chance to talk about her favorite past moments and childhood memories.

You'll be able to tell that she's interested in the conversation if she mentions her favorite childhood memories, or goes further than small talk with her answer.

Here are a few examples of how you can ask about where she grew up:

1. Where are you from?

   
   

2. Where did you grow up?

   
   

3. Do you miss where you grew up?

   
   

4. What was your favorite thing about where you grew up?

Find out about how she likes to spend her spare time, and what really interests her. This way, you'll find out what she's interested in and will keep the conversation about her. She’ll be excited to tell you about her hobbies, and you’ll find out what she’s really passionate about. 

1. How do you like to spend your spare time?

   
   

2. What are your favorite hobbies?

   
   

3. What are you passionate about?

   
   

4. Do you play any sports?

   
   

5. Do you consider yourself an artistic person, or more of an athletic person?

There are some topics that are always easy and lighthearted to talk about. Everyone has a different taste in food and drinks, so it can be interesting talking about what she likes and to get to know her food preferences. By asking about her favorite food and drinks, you might even find that you share common interests and have a few of the same favorites.

Ask her where she likes to go out to eat in her free time as it's a great conversation starter and is perfect to use when you aren't sure of what things to talk about. This approach also works as a great way into asking her out on a date to a local restaurant. 

Here are a few examples of what to say to keep the conversation flowing:

1. What meal would you have as your last meal ever?

   
   

2. What's your favorite food and drink combo?

   
   

3. Is there one meal you never get tired of? What is it?

   
   

4. Tell me your go-to drink order when you're out to eat.

   
   

5. What is your go-to coffee shop in the city?

Asking a girl about what music she likes can spark great conversations and is one of the easiest things to talk about. Express interest in what she likes and since everyone likes music, this is a simple conversation starter anyone can use to create great conversation.

As far as interesting topics go, this can make for a good conversation if you add to the conversation. Find out what she likes to listen to and if she's going to any concerts.

Here are a few easy ways you can ask her about her favorite music:

1. What's your all-time favorite band?

   
   

2. What's your favorite music artist right now?

   
   

3. Is there any song you can't get out of your head?

   
   

4. What was your favorite concert that you've been to?

Talking about inspiring things will leave her feeling optimistic, happy, and excited.

Ask her if she has a travel bucket list, and if there are any places she’d love to travel to. Most girls have a country or two on their bucket list, and if she’s an avid traveler, she’ll love telling you about her adventures. This is one of the most fun things to talk about and asking about her future plans is a great way to get her to start talking.

This approach could lead to deeper discussions and will help you avoid awkward silences. You can also ask her about her dream job, her career aspirations, or any other open ended questions that will get her feeling excited. Here are a few things you can ask her:

1. What places are on the top of your travel bucket list?

   
   

2. Do you have a favorite place you've visited?

   
   

3. Is there anywhere you've always wanted to travel to but haven't?

   
   

4. What's your dream job?

   
   

5. Do you have any career goals at the moment?

Bond with her by talking about personal topics that are positive and light. You can start by asking about her family members or friends. This can be a tricky topic as not everyone has a solid relationship with their family members, so make sure to check if she has any photos with her family or has brought them up before.

Ask her to tell you about her family, as this will help you get to know her better and will lead to meaningful conversations between the two of you.

Don't ask personal questions that are too personal like about past relationships, as it could be a touchy conversation topic, and she may not feel comfortable opening up to you yet

Here are a few questions you can ask:

1. Describe your family in three words.

   
   

2. What's a lesson your family has taught you?

   
   

3. What are your friends like?

   
   

4. What are your friends' best personality traits?

Spark up a conversation about some of her favorite things like favorite movies, songs, places, or anything else you can think of. She may have a few classic favorites she watches all the time, and you two can talk about them more, as well as see if you have any common interests in films. You can also use this as a way to ask her out on a date to see a new movie that’s out.

Use these examples to keep the conversation going with your crush:

1. What are your top 3 favorite films?

   
   

2. Have you seen any good movies lately?

   
   

3. What's your favorite celebrity?

   
   

4. Who is your celebrity crush?

   
   

5. What are one of your guilty pleasures

Bring a bit of humor into the conversation by asking about her pet peeves. Keep things easygoing and lighthearted with this approach to have a fun conversation. You can even start off by telling her some of your pet peeves, and then ask her about hers. 

Most women have a pet peeve or two like anyone else, and you two may even get to talk about some funny stories about your pet peeves when you ask her about hers. You can also ask her to tell you a funny story, or tell her one so she doesn't feel embarrassed to bring up hers.

Here are some examples to use:

1. What's your biggest pet peeve?

   
   

2. What's the funniest thing that has happened to you recently?

   
   

3. Tell me a funny story that not many people know.

If you're looking for genuine things to talk about, ask her to tell you how her friends describe her. She'll have to share details about her personality and what she's like as a person, and will also get her to think about her closest friends, making her more comfortable talking to you.

This question will show her you have a genuine interest in getting to know her better and also want to know more about her friends. Here are a few examples to use:

1. How would your friends describe you?
2. What are your top 3 personality traits?
3. Give me 5 characteristics to describe yourself